**This one's from November 20.**
As I so confidently wrote, I saw the adoption process as three basic steps... well, add in about a million tiny little very important details, and that's about right. I had the order wrong, too. And the estimated time.... :)
So, a dream adoption from this country, as I saw it in the rosy light of spring, new growth, rebirth... okay, enough poetry- anyway, in my naiveté:
Ø would have begun with a homestudy that was completed in about six weeks
Ø while we were gathering our other documents for the registration packet (called "the dossier") and renewing our passports .
Ø Our agency would then send the dossier to the foreign country, where it would be translated in a week or two, and then submitted to the proper authorities
Ø who would take about ten days to look everything over, then invite us to travel for our first visit (with two weeks' notice)with the little girl we hope to make our own
Ø after which, we would return home, wait for a month or two (maybe three) and travel back for the court hearing
Ø then have just 30 days to wait until we picked her up and came home, together at home at last!
Count out those weeks. That's about 27. I was a bit off. Next week is the 27th week of this adoption process and we haven't even gotten a travel date yet!
Now, don't get me wrong. I know of people who have been working on their adoption for months and months. I know of people who have waited years. I am not complaining (right now). I just mention this dream-like timeline to show you how off I was. Or how naive. Or innocent. Or just plain uneducated.
Oh, yes, I've learned a fair amount in the last 27 weeks. But I bet I don't know half! And there are always surprises in a Russian adoption. So even next time... just kidding. Maybe. We'll see. As I said, there are always surprises. :) (No, Mom and Dad, we don't have any plans for another adoption. But this one wasn't planned, either! So, I'm just keeping my heart and mind open, just in case. I'm learning, you know.)